Nobody needs coaching!
You want it.
You want it because you recognise you’ve got to a point in your life where you want to move forward or make a change and it’s not happening.
It’s not happening because what got you here won’t get you to where you want to go and what got you here were the actions you took based on your thoughts and beliefs.
“If you don’t change your beliefs, your life will be like this forever. Is that good news?
W. Somerset Maugham
Coaching is similar to sculpting. Michelangelo reputedly said “I saw the angel in the marble and I carved until I set him free”. Your coach sees what’s possible in you and for you; freedom comes when you let go or change your beliefs and you too see what’s possible.
So if you’re thinking
- ‘There must be more to life than this’
- Or you have a big birthday around the corner ‘How do I want to spend the rest of my life’
- Or your job drains you of energy ‘I’m stuck here, too old/too young to find another one
- Or your relationship is at the end of its shelf life ‘I can’t leave, I’ll be on my own’
Then coaching could help. If you’re asking yourself “Can’t I do this on my own?”, well maybe you can, but you’d have done it by now if you could! We never see ourselves as clearly as a coach sees us.
Coaching can help you to reset your GPS
Most of us have stories about our lives – how we got here, what shaped us, who was to blame, why we are the way we are – but the stories don’t have to define us although they very often do.
If you want to change the outcome of your story you can because when you shift your mind, you shift your world. Everything changes when we change. So what do you want to change?
What are you not doing that you want to do?
What if you’re closer than you think to your dream?
What will happen to you if you do nothing?
Coaching is a partnership, we work together and we co-create together. I don’t work with everyone who asks me. First we have to meet, we need to see if we are the right fit to work together. I think of it as creating a bridge together (it’s how they build bridges), we each start one side and meet in the middle. The fit in the middle is about vision, chemistry, resonance, we both know if it feels right. Let’s start with a phone call 07703 608607
“It wasn’t until I got a coach myself that I changed my life. To be honest, I had always thought I could sort things out on my own, I could make the changes I needed to make. But the truth was, that I couldn’t see what I needed to change and I think most of us have this problem. We’re too close to it, too ruled by our fears; change looks too frightening. But one step at a time is how I started and that’s what I love helping other people to do”.